“Before getting trained as a Midwifery educator, the scenario was different. I always used to give commands to the mothers. But after the training, I understood one important thing: her birth, her body, and her choices. We must help mothers create a positive birthing experience and make them feel happy.” Mallika, a midwifery educator, believes in creating beautiful birthing experiences and giving preferences to mothers’ choices.
Mallika is a midwifery educator at State Midwifery Training Institute, Guntur, Andhra Pradesh. In 2010, she completed her MSc in Community Health Nursing from Narayana College of Nursing, Nellore. Since then, she has worked as a staff nurse in public health institutes until she came across an opportunity to train as a midwifery educator. She was happy to know that NMTI, Fernandez Foundation was offering such training with the association of the Government of India and the World Health Organization. It was a big thing because very few institutions offer such opportunities.
“My mother was a nurse, and I always used to go with her to the hospital. Since then, I dreamt of becoming a nurse. I always enjoyed being in the labour room, watching babies, and helping new mothers”. Mallika narrates one of her recent experiences as a midwife when she felt so happy and satisfied. “On a recent morning when I went to the hospital, I saw that one young pregnant lady in extreme labour pain. The thing that touched me was that she was alone, and nobody from her family accompanied her. More than the physical pain, she was going through emotional pain.” She added, “we took care of her. All the midwife trainees were always there with her throughout. And after she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, she felt so happy and pleased.” When pregnant mothers visit hospitals, they feel so much more vulnerable. This is because midwives are the ones who always accompany and help mothers. This makes mothers feel confident, respected, and powerful.
Mallika recalls her early days of working in Guntur. “Initially, nurses working in the hospital found our birthing practices incorrect. However, we shared our experiences and knowledge of skin-to-skin contact, different birthing positions, and delayed cord clamping. After that, they started incorporating these methods.”
“Every day was an experience during our training at NMTI, Fernandez School of Nursing. The amount of respect given to us was heart-warming. Even today, whenever we feel stuck at work and need suggestions, they always extend their support,” adds Mallika. She believes Midwifery Training Programmes are essential to understand the essence of midwifery. Therefore, aspiring midwives should grab this opportunity for a beautiful learning experience.